On building resilience at the workplace

On building resilience at the workplace
22 January 2026
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Most people spend almost 60 to 80% of their waking hours in the workplace with varying degrees of success in terms of the outcome or output of their input into their work. For most of them, the term productivity is directly related to how beneficial that output is going to be in terms of future earnings generated by it while for some, it truly represents the quality of the output in terms of getting the best out of them. It has been proven that sustained productivity can only occur where there have been small periods of rest in between large periods of productivity or generation of good output. These rests are meant to resource the individual and allow him/her to take a step back and reassess whatever he/she has been doing and possibly choose alternate routes for better outcomes or build upon what was already achieved for a reinforced chosen route.

In most organisations that deal with static types of input from employees, rest is not something which is encouraged internally nor is it even talked about that much. People who find themselves needing some rest tend to feel uneasy when this need hits them and they either mask it or give into it in a more secretive way than is necessary. Most organisations are all about heightened performance and building competition between colleagues to deliver the best outcome for the organisation, without much regard for the mental or physical state of the individuals within that organisation. From time to time, they will, however, in a very theoretical and detached way, have sessions or limited workshops on the benefits of rest and on ensuring work life balance. This remains mostly theoretical and the organisations prove their own failing to adhere to what they recommend by doing things like allowing work meetings throughout the day, some of which would take up all of lunchtime and go further through the day making having lunch impossible on several days in a row. Employees are assumed to be in agreement with this and not make a fuss about what is considered such a minimal thing in their schedule. This approach is very different to organisations that deal with dynamic types of input like for example those in the entertainment industry or in the business of having other very creative outputs (for example google as it first was or the likes) as rest, a fresh mind and a sense of fun are paramount to the right input from the employees.

In organisations with a static input, it is expected that employees continue to function at a high level of concentration even throughout the days during which they have not been able to have lunch and this of an obvious disservice to those who need to have regular meals, say a diabetic person for example. The only other solution to this conundrum is for the employees in question to have their meal during the work meetings, which during video zoom meetings is obviously uncomfortable or embarrassing for the persons eating. With the peer pressure, these individuals tend to try to adapt to the way other employees behave and end up with any degree of worsening of their health. For those healthy individuals, the recurrent loss of possibility to have a regular meal creates health problems, albeit on the medium to long term.

The end result of all of this is what was well coined as a “rat race” with several individuals competing together or against each other in order to produce the greatest output possible by all means achievable. Think of it as a hamster running on a wheel until that hamster gets exhausted and has to stop or sometimes just die of exhaustion. Year after year, each individual is asked to generate a greater input to deliver a greater output, find within them what is evidently believed to be an infinite pool of resources in order to deliver more than what they did the year before, just enough to satisfy the end users of the output generated, i.e. the shareholders of the organisations in question.

It would seem like there is no solution for this ever-increasing demand of a greater output, of more dedication to the workplace and less indulgence in rest or any type of work-life balance. While the picture looks bleak at first, it is not entirely the case. A primary source of auto-generating favourable inputs and better outcomes is to build resilience, which in this case would mean the capacity to last longer within the same external circumstances. Resilience is not built through sheer will power in delivering an increased input but in attenuating the effect of the external circumstances on the individual. In terms of rest, for example, taking power naps of 5-10 minutes helps boost the decreasing levels of energy that an individual might experience. Without spending too much time on the rest, a similarly favourable result can be achieved this way. Another practice that can increase resilience is to try to keep the timing of the meals the same and choose not to have the video on during a zoom meeting in order to avoid chewing in front of everyone. This together with a reminder to oneself that the meal should be enjoyed despite the constraints helps in making life feel less hectic. Planning out the day by setting aside at least 10 minutes for the organisation of the work at the onset of the work day can also go a long way in terms of helping keep the stress levels down. There will of course always be those unplanned events such as client or other emergencies but these are extraordinary happenings and should remain so. Indeed, if there are always emergencies, it just means that the work has not been allocated the right way or that there is an understaffing problem. Sometimes, the mere act of going outside of the work building and walking among the crowd of people can regenerate the lost energy or at least help to relativise things.

Some people, like myself, build resilience by using positive affirmations and breathing techniques. It is very soothing when one is in a state of increasing stress to close one’s eyes for a few seconds or minutes and use one of the breathing techniques that calm anxiety (Box breathing: inhale for 4 counts, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold lungs empty for 4 and repeat; 4-7-8 breathing: place the tip of your tongue behind your upper front teeth, exhale completely with a whoosh sound, inhale quietly through your nose for 4 counts, hold your breath for 7, exhale completely through your mouth with a whoosh sound for 8 and repeat). It is also possible to increase one’s energy using something like the technique of the breath of fire which is used in yoga. In terms of positive affirmations, I particularly like one “I make effective and quality business decisions. I have the insight to identify unique opportunities that will increase my performance” which I alternate with self-care positive affirmations like “I have a healthy mind. I am free from anxiety and fear. I rise above negative and toxic thoughts. I think only positive and productive things. I break free from the chains of worry, pain, and shame holding me down” or even “I choose myself. I am deliberate about taking care of myself. I refuse to be used and abused. My health and wellness are a priority.” For me, the daily use of the breathing techniques coupled with the positive affirmations has radically changed both my approach to stress as well as the resilience I have for challenges I may face and this actually extends to more than just work. I feel more energised, more empowered and confident in my own abilities and capacity for generating an optimised input.

For those interested, I am happy to share other positive affirmations than those noted down here. Please feel free to comment here or reach me at the email listed in my about section if you want me to share more of these positive affirmations.

Laura Wright - Barber's Agnus Dei/The Sound Of Strength

The heirloom

The heirloom

21 June 2018

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She gazed at the intricate details of the carvings on it. She wondered how anyone could carve such ornate figures at such a miniature level. She also wondered what they had thought about when carving the details. Did they think at all while performing such a delicate task ? Surely one had to be fully focused on the actual task at hand and could not let one’s mind wander off into other areas of interest.

She turned it over and caressed the small carvings of names (or of initials depending upon how long the name was) that attested whom it had belonged to. At the bottom she could read and feel the carving of a R and a B. Soon she would add her initials to those names. Whenever she caressed the initials she felt as if she were in touch again with her dead grandmother and beyond her with all her female ancestry. There were so many more beautiful things that she could have taken from her mother’s treasured collection but for some reason this had been the only thing with which she had felt a connection.

She remembered how her grandmother would dote over it and spell out to her the names for which only the initials had been carved on it. She delicately opened the pin making sure she did not prick herself on the edge of it and fastened it to her shirt. It was supposed to act as a lucky talisman. She was going for an interview and needed all the luck she could get she thought. She looked at herself in the mirror and the beautiful carved brooch caught her eye. Lucky talisman or not, she felt this alone would make her stand out in the crowd of candidates.

She smoothed the areas of the shirt around the brooch, combed her hair with her fingers, took her bag and walked out of the door her head full of hopes and the brooch sitting squarely upon her chest. When she slid into the back seat of the cab, the driver’s attention to her brooch put a smile to her lips. If a man so blasé as cab drivers were could be interested in the brooch, so would be her interviewers or at least the female ones.

She touched the brooch softly caressing its intricate details. She was carrying with her the whole female tribe she belonged to. They would not let her down. This was not just any heirloom she thought, this was the combined strength of a lineage of unusually strong women. She smiled again to herself. All would be well soon.

Ya Sahra – Light in Babylon

 

Crimson Fields

Crimson Fields

30 July 2016

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Haughty manes

Shake with the terror

Of ending

Dark clinging

To the remnants of the might

Keeping up the fight

 

Face the Fate

It is above Time

Ease the grip

Lest we slip

Into brink of nothingness

Scurrying the mice

 

They bathe us

In desperation

Crimson Fields

Power wields

Strength of receding darkness

Blast preceding ice

 

Reading of the poem: 

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People – Kat Frankie

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pv_B8Yq-LtM

My spirit dances

My spirit dances

22 September 2015

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You and I now know

The strength of this connection

Kinship of spirits

 

Days wasted doubting

The essence of this frenzy

That sieged both our Hearts

 

The tremors that shook

Within ethereal life’s frames

Unwinding desires

 

Our minds we read loud

Like deafening thunder’s voice

The tug of those calls!

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Complex yet simple

The weave between the two souls

That stubborn sole stood

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Now adornments gone

We stand facing us naked

Devoid of all frills

 

Shaking and fearful

Though strength comes on word by word

Your spirit chants low

 

Allured and enticed

To vibrations of your Love

My spirit dances

 

In dance of lovers

Only morrow is union

Of the naked flesh

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NTmiQ96woM

The bread of Mercy

The bread of Mercy

11 September 2015

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When you had grown old

Tired and worn out by life

Kissed dreamtime over

 

I watched over you

As you swam in oblivion

With memories wept

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I handed you sight

That damned me to see untold

For clocks would not wind

 

You sank with the weight

Of history unfolded

To death of morrows

 

I cried for lost nights

For this place was a shelter

To our broken dreams

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With last strength of age

You reached out to a light stream

Woven across Time

 

Thumbelina spread

Across infinity’s maze

The bread of Mercy

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8eo1xMC7VbU

This spirit in me

This spirit in me

9 September 2015

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Looking back at me

I was once forever two

Hope and grief combined

 

Today when I look

The grief so slight may resist

But Hope surges so

 

First flickering frail

Then kneaded in strength of stones

Wills all woes dissolve

 

Moon restores in me

Blackened stories of the day

That the dark raises

 

Sun simmered in me

Completing work of the night

Built in me cradles

.

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Waves resurge in me

The wondrous light of that Love

Spirit elevates

 

Photons shoot in me

Throbbing electricity

Lighting me fires

 

I swim to your shores

In purity preservation

Of a beating Heart

 

My figure grown Light

Transfigured by your loving

I will show your glows

 

True nature of me

Will shine through external mask

As Truth dissolves lies

.

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Look only within

I will take you to the Source

Of all Abundance

 

Now follow the signs

The way lies hidden in you

Within worlds you know

 

I will await it

The rise of your lost knowledge

As it softly grows

 

The path that calls me

Leads into my other worlds

That gyrate within

 

This spirit in me

Brings pulsating to my hands

Surging energy

.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQLYwj3JayA

Back into Jerusalem

Back into Jerusalem

31 August 2015

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Criss-cross of chances

Black hole meets mass of matter

The less is the most

.

Interwoven signs

I, Minerva of the past

Forgot my own tasks

.

Jolted now awake

My saddle I will set right

As horses whinny

.

Riding into dusk

To the outlines of mountains

As the sun sets low

.

I drink your water

Essence of your earthly life

From new wells you birthed

.

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The stars will combine

Shimmering mass of light rays

That from you wrought strength

.

Roots spread between us

Gathering the momentum

That in the heart pulls

.

Glory of simple

Walking upon the waters

Which in the soul flow

.

Ebb and flow of waves

Back into Jerusalem

I will walk head high

.

Twenty three paces

More than mythical nine yards

Upheaval measure

.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aaPjtnZk6mg